FAQ
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How do I know if a Trauma-Informed Marriage Coach is the right path for me?
If you are a highly ambitious, high-performing wife who is ready to repair connection in her marriage and harmony in her body and life, this is the place for you. Even if you think you've tried everything, even if you're emotionally drained and even if your husband isn't on board, this is a path that can help you move the trauma out of your body so you can thrive in your marriage.
The mainstream modalities for healing a marriage are: Go see a therapist. Go to couples counseling. Read this book. Listen to this podcast. Check out this Instagram page. Read this article…” and the list goes on. None of these are bad, but when you understand how our nervous system works it’s a real eye-opener into why all of these fall short, leaving couples emotionally disconnected at best- or worst-case scenario, divorced when they both actually wanted the marriage to work but didn’t know how to repair. If there’s nothing else people remember from this entire article I want them to remember this: We all have a giant nerve running from the base of our skull to the bottom of our spine known as the “Vagus Nerve”. Think of it like the super highway of information sending chemical messages from our brain to our body, body to our brain. Get this … only 20% of these messages travel from our brain to our body. But 80% travel from our BODY to our brain. All that to say, all the most popular avenues we’ve taken for decades to save our marriages have only been tapping into that 20%. So, it’s no wonder we all feel like salmon swimming upstream and the divorce rate just keeps skyrocketing. When we learn to work WITH the 80%, get INTO the body to move trauma OUT – this is where we see miracles happen. I get to witness it every single day in my community, women not only recovering but redesigning the marriage of their dreams after the brink of divorce, after betrayal, after abuse, abandonment, separation, etc.
In what step of the divorce process is best for me to meet with a marriage coach and why?
Ideally this is a program you implement before divorce. Oftentimes women come into this program because they feel like they’ve tried everything else to save their marriage and are really seeking a way to either truly heal their marriage or heal themselves. This is an online program, with live coaching sessions, so you can do it from the comfort of anywhere you choose.
Whether I'm a breadwinner or a stay-at-home mom, what value will I get out of working with you?
By the end of you 6 months in the program you’ll have found complete clarity in your marriage, whether to stay or go. You’ll have learned the language of your own somatic signals - an enormous source of personal wisdom and direction as you navigate your journey. You’ll have stepped back into your power, whether that is complete repair in your relationship with your spouse or complete peace in your decision to step away. Either way, you rise … and your transformation will call your husband up or call him out.
How do I afford this if I am a stay-at-home mom or don't have access to the finances?
We have very flexible payment plans as well as creative financing options that have helped dozens of women be able to step into healing if finances are the only barrier to her breakthrough.
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DISCLAIMER: The information provided is for educational purposes only and does not act as legal, financial or psychological advice. While the insights may have wide applicability, readers should consult with an attorney, CPA, financial advisor, therapist or coach in your state to obtain advice with respect to your particular issue and/or case.
Jamie Milam Consulting, LLC © October 2023